5 Signs the Relationship May Be In Trouble - Avoid A Love Breakup

I remember when my love broke up with me. It was one of the most painful times I ever went through. I am sure you felt or feel the same way also. When I look back I saw that the signs of the impending breakup where there, but I either just did not recognize them, or maybe it was that I just did not want to acknowledge them. Maybe I just did not want to admit and own up to the fact that I was destroying the relationship with a woman that I really did love. There are many signs to an impending breakup. Don't make the same mistake I did, learn to understand them and pay attention, and maybe they will help you prevent a breakup with your love. They may also help you get back together if you have already broken up.

Catching your partner in lies. It does not matter if they are big or small, they can signal problems. I always feel that if it is a small lie why tell it at all, the truth is easier. If there are many small lies, then larger more serious ones may not be far behind.

Sex is a sure sign of an impending breakup. If there is no physical contact, and I'm not just talking sex here. Is sex becoming less frequent or not existent? Does your partner hold your hand or hug and kiss with you either when alone or in public.

Do you and your partner stop doing things that you used to love doing together. As people grow and evolve they will find new interests. This in itself is not a problem. The problem is that if you and your partner lose interest in sharing the activities that you use to love doing together. Doing things together and trying new experiences together shows that you are interested in your partner and encouraging each other.

Is your partner acting differently? With every person this will be different, but are they staying out later, spending more time at work or with friends are they talking to you less, are they complaining about everything you do, are they picking fights over little things. Are they irritable all the time?

Does your partner stop talking about the future? Try making plans with partner for a weekend getaway or vacation and see if they try to avoid the subject and come up with some type of excuse even if you give them the option of different dates.

If you see these signs, it does not mean that the relationship is doomed to end, but it will give you a very good idea that there is something wrong. How long have the signs been there? A few weeks, months, longer? The best thing you can do is sit down with your partner and ask them their feeling on your relationship. Are they happy, are their needs being met? Better to talk about it and see if you can resolve any issues, then come home one day and find your home empty and your partner long gone!